PUBLIC SHAMING BLOG: #IStandWithMonica #Compassion #Empathy #Youwillsurvivepublicshaming

“Monica Lewinsky speaks at TED2015 – Truth and Dare, Session 9, March 19, 2015, Vancouver Convention Center, Vancouver, Canada” by James Duncan Davidson and the TED Conference flickr account is licensed under CC BY-NC 2.0


I think that somebody’s comments become cyberbullying when they start adversely affecting another individual.

For instance, Michelle Ferrier, a writer, received many hateful comments from her readers because she discussed her African-American background in the “Daytona Beach News-Journal.”

One person wrote this to Ferrier, “All you people do is cry, bitch, wine [sic], bitch.”

Ferrier was worried for her safety so she “started carrying a gun to protect herself and her family until eventually she left her job at the paper in 2009,” according to the “Columbia Journalism Review.”  

I think that when people start throwing racial abuse and slurs on social media, then this online harassment crosses the line. Threatening speech is never okay.

Additionally, there was the article we read about the case of the referee named John Higgins who had to delete his Facebook account because of online harassment. Moreover, he felt harassed to the point where he was afraid for his own safety.

“People on the other end of the [telephone] line have been calling in with death threats towards Higgins, causing him to be panicked over the whole ordeal.” Also, “Higgins felt so disturbed by the messages that he met with law enforcement for over two hours Tuesday.”

Another example of the case of cyberbullying is the case of Monica Lewinsky.  According to her TED talk, “[Lewinsky] was branded as a tramp, tart, slut, whore, bimbo, and, of course, that woman.” In a New York Times article, Jessica Bennett , the author, writes that, “When I was 16, one dominating image of Monica Lewinsky seemed to overshadow all others: slut.

I think cyberbullying goes too far when it causes people to commit suicide. Lewinsky discussed the case of Tyler Clementi.

“Tyler was secretly webcammed by his roommate while being intimate with another man. When the online world learned of this incident, the ridicule and cyberbullying ignited. A few days later, Tyler jumped from the George Washington Bridge to his death. He was 18.”

According to Lewinsky’s TED talk, “Every day online, people, especially young people who are not developmentally equipped to handle this, are so abused and humiliated that they can’t imagine living to the next day, and some, tragically, don’t, and there’s nothing virtual about that.”

Speaking of suicide and cyberbullying, Lewinsky’s parents were afraid that she was going to kill herself because of the harassment she faced. Her mother “sat by [her] bed every night,” and her mother “made [her] shower with the bathroom door open” to make sure that she did not commit suicide.


According to The New York Times article by Jon Ronson, he writes that, “As time passed, though, I watched these shame campaigns multiply, to the point that they targeted not just powerful institutions and public figures but really anyone perceived to have done something offensive.”

I think it is interesting that public shaming has turned to private figures and individuals. Typically, one might think that celebrities are the target of public shaming because they are always in the spotlight. Nevertheless, it might be surprising to some people that private figures such as Justine Sacco can be the target of public shaming.

Her tweet — which was under 140 characters — literally transformed her life. She lost her job, and this notorious tweet will forever be plastered on the internet for everyone to see. As one Twitter use put it, “Sorry @JustineSacco, your tweet lives on forever.” That must be so awful and damaging for Justine Sacco’s reputation to be known all her life as the woman with the racist tweet.

I do not think it is fair to judge Sacco by one mere tweet. She is more than that. She is a human person. She has changed for the better. I don’t think that it is right to judge people by their past actions if they have committed themselves to being a better person. For instance, it is not like Sacco is still tweeting incredibly racist and controversial tweets. She has changed and learned from her mistake.

I can see why she thought it was an accident. She only intended the tweet to be for her friends. She wanted the tweet to be interpreted sarcastically. She was surprised that the tweet went viral because she did not realize that her Twitter account is public for the whole world to see. I think everyone can learn from Justine Sacco’s mistake and try to not publish irresponsible messages on social media.


Ronson interviewed the people who were adversely affected by public shaming. According to The New York Times, “The people I met were mostly unemployed, fired for their transgressions, and they seemed broken somehow — deeply confused and traumatized.”

I feel so sorry for all these people that made mistakes on social media. I do not think that a person’s mistakes on social media should define who they are a person. I do not think you should lose your job for a stupid tweet.  As Ronson writes, Justine Sacco’s “punishment simply didn’t fit the crime.” Additionally, she has trouble finding someone to date. According to the New York Times article, “I’m single; so it’s not like I can date, because we Google everyone we might date.” In the same way, Monica Lewinsky has not fully recovered from the scandal that she was involved in. According to a New York Times article by Jessica Bennett, “At 41, she doesn’t have many of the things that a person her age may want: a permanent residence, an obvious source of income (she won’t comment on her finances), a clear career path.”

I think that the consequences of both Justine Sacco’s and Monica Lewinsky’s actions are severe because both women have not fully recovered from their experiences with public shaming.


When we see something that makes us upset on social media, I do not think it is a good idea for all of the social media users to chime in and attack and victimize others on social media. Would you want somebody to do that to you if you were in that situation? How would you like to be Monica Lewinsky? Would you like to be the subject of public ridicule? Would you want to make the situation worse for another individual? Another example of public shaming is the case of the dentist named Walter Palmer that shot a lion in Zimbabwe. He had to close his practice because of public shaming, according to The New York Times. I think losing your dentist practice is such a harsh consequence for killing a lion. Online social media users should just get over whatever is making them upset and move on.


Some people might not want to use social media because they do not like being the victim of public shaming.

For instance, Leslie Jones, an actor, was being attacked on Twitter because people were really upset that there were women in “Ghostbusters” and also she was attacked with racial slurs, according to “The Guardian.”  

Because she was threatened racially and as a women, she got off of Twitter. After taking a break from Twitter, she reactivated her Twitter account, according to CNN.

Jones is just one example of celebrities taking breaks from social media. I think that getting off social media is one alternative if one cannot handle the hate on social media.

Others might not like the public atmosphere of Twitter, so they may opt out of using it altogether. In the case of Justine Sacco, the tweet “Going to Africa. Hope I don’t get AIDS. Just kidding. I’m white!” was such a dumb thing to write and broadcast on Twitter. Some people might be afraid to mistakenly publish something controversial just like Justine Sacco did, and these people might choose to not use social media. Yet, I do not think that one should be afraid to use social media because of Sacco’s experience.  At the same time, I think that Sacco should have been more savvy about what she tweeted because she was in PR. I think that there are some topics that one might just talk about to their friends and not to everyone on social media such as Sacco’s racist tweet.


According to Monica Lewinsky’s TED talk, she discusses that social media rewards cyberbullying. She says that, “This invasion of others is a raw material, efficiently and ruthlessly mined, packaged and sold at a profit. A marketplace has emerged where public humiliation is a commodity and shame is an industry.”

Oh, what a shame. That is so depressing that social media is being used to make money off of other people’s embarrassing mistakes.


Can social media be a more compassionate place? In Lewinsky’s TED talk, she discusses that, ” … it was the compassion and empathy from my family, friends, professionals, and sometimes even strangers that saved me.”

One of the reasons she gave the TED talk was to “help others who had been similarly humiliated,” according to The New York Times. I agree with Lewinsky’s strategy to combat cyberbullying. She says that it is important to refute online cyberbullying with positive comments. According to Lewinsky, “we can post a positive comment for someone or report a bullying situation.” She thinks that, “compassionate comments help abate the negativity.”

Likewise, Lewinsky discussed the Tyler Clementi Foundation,  Anti-Bullying Pro, and Project Rockit that try to combat the issue of cyberbullying.

Additionally, TrollBusters is an organization that fights the harassment on “Twitter with positive, supportive messages, which … provide a counter narrative to drown out hateful trolling,” according to the “Columbia Journalism Review.” 

TrollBusters is at least something to combat cyberbullying. This organization is trying to make sure that people do not feel like they are under attack, isolated and that there are people who support the victims of cyberbullying.


While free speech advocates argue that one should protect speech that one does not like and hates, I think that people should responsibly use social media and not use it to the detriment of others. I think that more communication is better than less. I do not think it is right to censor views that one does not like. At the same time, I think that cyberbullies can take online harassment too far. As aforementioned, some people KILL themselves because they cannot stand the online harassment. Many people do not think that there is a PERSON behind the screen. Maybe they should “THINK” about their actions on social media.

In conclusion, I think the acronym THINK is a good sentiment to end on. Is what you are posting thoughtful, helpful, inspiring, necessary and kind?  Every social media message does not have to encompass all of the THINK acronym, but it should try to incorporate one aspect of this acronym.

In regard to social media, if one is ever the target of cyberbullying, I think that it is important to remember the advice from Monica Lewinsky. She survived some of the worst cyberbullying imaginable. If she can survive, then anyone can too. It is so important to have hope that one’s situation will get better.

“You can survive it,” Lewinsky said. “I know it’s hard. It may not be painless, quick or easy, but you can insist on a different ending to your story. Have compassion for yourself. We all deserve compassion, and to live both online and off in a more compassionate world.”



“I CANNOT LOOK AT THAT MASSIVE BUG THAT IS ABOUT TO BE PULLED OUT OF THAT KITTEN’S NOSE!!!” I thought as she was about to show us the video that went viral from the Nebraska Humane Society

Last week our journalism social media class went to the Nebraska Humane Society. We heard Elizabeth Hilpipre give a lecture about social media. She is an alumni from Creighton University, and her current job is the development and communications specialist at Nebraska Humane Society.


I think the most interesting part of her lecture were the fun success stories that she posted on Facebook and Twitter that went viral. For example, there was the story about the sheep wearing a sweater. One day, a guy called 911 because he said that he found a sheep inside of his yard. Then, animal patrol came and retrieved the sheep from his yard. Then, the next day Elizabeth decided to put the sheep on Facebook with the sole purpose of finding his owner because he was lost. After he was posted on social media, the story went viral. They used the hashtag “#christmassheep” and many news outlets picked the story up including the “Associated Press,” “BuzzFeed,” “Good Morning America,” “The Today Show,” Russian newspapers and British newspapers. The only reason that she posted this story was because the Nebraska Humane Society wanted to find the sheep’s home. Subsequently, the owner called and picked up the sheep after the story went viral.

Another viral story was a video of the Nebraska Humane Society’s vets removing a massive fly larva from a little kitten’s nose. Elizabeth published a video online about a little kitten who had a fly larva stuck up his nose. Elizabeth took the video of them pulling out the bug, and she posted that video on the Nebraska Humane Society’s Facebook page. The video reached about 5.7 million people, it was viewed over 3 million times on their Facebook page alone and it was viewed by over a million people on their YouTube channel. In sum, the video has been viewed by a ton of people. Although this video was not popular in the United States, it went viral in South Korea, Japan and China.


Elizabeth said that people who work in the social media social media industry probably only get one viral news story in their life or career. Currently, she said that she has had about three viral news stories. I think that students can especially learn from Elizabeth’s experience. I think that social media readers especially enjoy these types of sensational and viral news stories and journalists should seek to find these types of fun success stories.

The cool thing about all of these stories whenever they are going viral across the internet is that they are always mentioning the name of the Nebraska Humane Society. So, these stories get the name of the Nebraska Humane Society all over the country. In addition, because of social networks, the Nebraska Humane Society gets a lot of donations from people in Omaha as a result of this advertising of their name.


She uses data to figure out what to post. She utilizes Facebook insights, Twitter activity analytics, YouTube analytics and Instagram analytics to her advantage to determine what to post for the Nebraska Humane Society.

How does she successfully gauge posts? She utilizes data. Facebook, Twitter, YouTube and Instagram all give her a lot of data to work with. Twitter gives her a lot of data such as household income, people’s favorite things, what people follow and what they like.


Additionally, the Twitter analytics tell her that the Nebraska Humane Society followers like pop culture references. As a result, she likes to do a lot of pop culture references on the Nebraska Humane Society Twitter account page because of what the analytics tell her about their followers. For instance, she made a reference to the movie “Star Wars” recently for a dog on the Nebraska Humane Society Twitter page. She thinks that it is great that people interact with posts that reference pop culture.

Credit: Nebraska Humane Society Twitter account. This is an example of a pop culture reference to “Star Wars.”

Regarding their Facebook analytics, the Nebraska Humane Society Facebook page has an average video reach of about 70 thousand people. So, that data tells her that if she wants to reach the most amount of people, then she should probably use this detail. Also, Facebook analytics give her even more details such as the average length that viewers watch videos and when they stop watching videos. She can usually shoot a video in about 30 seconds, but she figured out that people are probably only watching ten seconds of it. She learned from the Facebook analytics, and now she usually only does ten second videos.

Additionally, the Nebraska Humane Society posts a lot of photos on social media. Elizabeth told us that Facebook is now ranking their content higher based on people who use the Facebook reactions button (e.g. a smiley face, heart, et cetera) more than the thumbs up icon. Moreover, many news stations might ask their viewers what they think of their story that they post on Facebook because they want to get rewarded by Facebook and get their content ranked higher from Facebook followers who utilize the reactions button to give their opinion about a story.

She uses the data to work in the Nebraska Humane Society’s favor. She mentioned that they were having trouble promoting a huge fundraiser on their general Facebook page. It was very frustrating for her that there was not very much interaction on their Facebook page for this event. So last year, in 2016, she reinvented how they post on Facebook. Instead of doing just general posts on their Facebook page, she created an event just for the Nebraska Humane Society walk event so that she could target the audience of people who are just interested in that event. She updated that event regularly so that way people who were interested in that event would be able to sign up for it. She also saved posts for the event on their main Facebook page such as general information about the event. For example, she crossposted general information about when the deadline was to register for the event on their main Facebook page.  This separation of the event from the main Facebook page really helped the Nebraska Humane Society’s Facebook page. She noticed that the Nebraska Humane Society had more engagement on their event page than their posts from the previous year.  For instance, one post that she put on their main Facebook page reached about 20 thousand people, but the post on the event page reached about 27 thousand people.

This is an example of the difference between posting on an event page on Facebook and the main Facebook page for the Nebraska Humane Society. On the left, there is a post on the main Facebook page that reached about 20 thousand people. On the right, there is a post on their event page that reached about 27 thousand people.  In sum, the event page was more successful because it reached 7 thousand more people. Credit: Elizabeth Hilpipre’s Social Media PowerPoint

Also, she uses the data to enhance the Nebraska Humane Society’s social media strategy. She mentioned that the Nebraska Humane Society has started using boosted posts on their main Facebook page for really important things. For example, when the Nebraska Humane Society is full of cats, then she will pay to boost their Facebook posts about cats. Additionally, she boosted the walk event. For instance, a preview of the walk event would show up on somebody’s news feed because the Nebraska Humane Society boosted and targeted the market of people who have pets, people who like to run and people who like to walk. She said that the Nebraska Humane Society is able to target their audience by using the data to their advantage.

Additionally, the Nebraska Humane Society pays to advertise and boost posts on Instagram. One of the benefits about advertising on Instagram is that the Nebraska Humane Society can put up multiple photos. For instance, if the Nebraska Humane Society puts up a cat advertisement on Instagram, then Instagrammers can scroll through and see multiple photos of cats.

Even though their intake for cats was higher last year, boosting posts on Instagram helped the Nebraska Humane Society lower the number of free cat sales that they had to do.

They do not like to giving cats away for free; however, when they have too many cats, then they do give cats away for free.

The Nebraska Humane Society reached a lot of people with paid advertising. Their paid advertising reached 2.6 million people.

She also said that their Facebook page last year had 63 million impressions and reached 26.3 million people. Their main Facebook page has about 130 thousand likes. Their main Twitter account last year had over 9 million impressions.

Despite the fact that a lot of people boost general posts on Facebook, Elizabeth thinks that it is waste of money for the Nebraska Humane Society to pay to reach people who may not interact with their social media posts. She mentioned that it is more valuable for the Nebraska Humane Society to pay to get people to like their main Facebook page. Also, the Nebraska Humane Society boosts their “Donate” now button on their Facebook page. By boosting their “Donate” now button, this helped the Nebraska Humane Society raise over $5,000 in December of 2016. This strategy works better and is more valuable than boosting just a general post.


One of the significant pieces of advice that she mentioned was to be friends with your professors. She said that students should just be friends with your professors because they are going to be the ones who find you jobs, get you jobs, and recommend you for jobs. For example, when Creighton alums are applying for a position at the Nebraska Humane Society, she said that the Nebraska Humane Society will ask Carol what she thinks of the job applicant.

She said that forming genuine relationships with your professors and being kind to them is an excellent thing to do because it is important to make connections — especially if you want to stay in Omaha. If somebody plans to work in Omaha, then it is definitely about who you know, who knows you and who can give you a good recommendation. So, she recommends utilizing those connections from your professors. She also recommends to participate in your classes because she thinks that professors remember you. For instance, if one was a difficult student to deal with in class, then professors are probably not going to give you a recommendation letter.

In sum, her presentation on social media at the Nebraska Humane Society was fantastic, and it was such a great and informative lecture to listen to.

My Life Purpose in A Mere Fifteen Words

My sentence is, “Helper, event planner and Israel advocate who strives to make the world a better place.”


My student sentence encapsulates who I am and who I am becoming. Additionally, I am still searching for which helping career type suits me best which is why I chose the generic “helper” word in my sentence. As for helping careers, I cannot decide if I want to be a social worker someday or something else such as a dietitian. The worksheet, which is filled out below, goes into the process of reaching my sentence. The worksheet helped me get ideas for my sentence in addition.


I like helping other people. I like giving advice. Another strength that I have is that I am good at reading other people’s emotions (e.g. empathy). Reading body language is an important skill for therapists and social workers which is why I am considering going into these helping careers.


I am a borderline ISTP/ISFP. The ISFP personality type is very good at being a director and a manager of projects. I can fit all the pieces of a project together. Perhaps event planning should be a career I should pursue?

For instance, I really want Israeli Defense Soldiers to come to Creighton University for the CU Jew’s Annual Passover Seder Middle Eastern Dinner this year. I feel like it would enhance and ameliorate our Middle Eastern dinner. I know that an organization called StandWithUs has an annual IDF soldiers tour that goes to college campuses; however, the dates of the tour are February 12-26th, 2017 and our Passover Seder is scheduled for March 27th, 2017 from 4:30-6:30 p.m.

“StandWithUs Israeli Soldiers Stories Tour.” YouTube, uploaded by StandWithUs, 21 Nov. 2013,

Unfortunately, the tour was scheduled outside of the time frame of when our campus event was planned. So, I talked to the faculty coordinator of our club and asked if StandWithUs would still agree to send the soldiers to Creighton outside of the time frame. The faculty coordinator of our club said that StandWithUs probably would not agree to coordinate with our club and send the soldiers to campus outside of the time frame of the national tour. I did not accept this answer. I wanted a definite answer from the actual organization.  I knew the faculty coordinator of our club was unaffiliated with StandWithUs, so I contacted the executive director of StandWithUs and asked if the soldiers could come to Creighton outside of the time frame of the tour. He told me that the soldiers could come to campus on the specific date I requested — March 27th — even though it was outside the time frame of the tour. I forwarded this answer to the faculty coordinator of our club, and the faculty coordinator said that he thought it was a great idea and he agreed to have our club allocate funds for this endeavor.

“Hummus (Enhanced)” by Ron Dollete licensed under CC BY-ND 2.0

Also, I have great ideas for the food that I want to be served for the dinner this year. Last year, I did not think the food was very good that was served at the Passover Seder. For instance, the dessert for the dinner was some sort of fruit topping last year. Who wants fruit for dessert? Don’t most people like cake and cookies? We also served chicken and potatoes … I think we can do better than that! During one of the planning meetings, I criticized the food served last year and suggested alternative food to serve. Since this year is an Israeli themed Passover Seder, I suggested Middle Eastern food like falafel, shawarma, potato latkes, hummus and pita bread. Additionally, I suggested that we serve cake or cookies instead of fruit preserves. I feel like these alternatives are significantly better than the food served last year.

“Falafel”by momo is licensed under CC BY 2.0

I also think it would be a good idea to buy Oreo and Chips Ahoy! mini cookie bags to hand out at promotional tabling events prior to the Middle Eastern dinner we are having. I am going to pitch this idea during a planning meeting that is coming up.

“Shawarma” by cyclonebill is licensed under CC BY-SA 2.0

I think that our club should also purchase a poster for the Skutt Student Center and buy trifold paper sign holders to put on tabletops in eating areas such as the dining halls located in Skutt, Brandeis and Harper.

Additionally, I think it would be a good idea to have a bone marrow swab drive during the event. Approximately 70% of blood cancer patients cannot find a donor from their immediate family. This is why cancer patients turn to bone marrow registries such as Be The Match and Gift of Life for generous people who will donate their bone marrow or stem cells and save a life. During bone marrow drives, people partake in a simple cheek swab and fill out a form. The DNA from the swab is entered into an international registry. Only one in 430 people will ever be called by the organization to donate. In Judaism, there is a saying that if you save a life, it is as if you have saved the world. This bone marrow drive would also live up to Creighton University’s mission of providing “[s]ervice to others.” I think helping to save other people’s lives is a significant endeavor to pursue. I want to advocate for this idea as well during one of our planning meetings. Even if my idea is rejected, I can still try to organize a bone marrow drive with another organization on campus such as the  Creighton Graduate Student Government which organized a bone marrow drive in 2015 or the Creighton Colleges Against Cancer group.

Another talent that I have is that I am good at rote memorization. Although it takes me a long time to study, I am good at recalling information for tests and exams when I read class lecture notes numerous times. This study habit helps when I have to give a speech. For instance, I participated in the Interfaith Prayer Service at Creighton University in 2015. I memorized the background information that was about “Psalm 121 A Song of Ascents.” I said this information in front of the audience at St. John’s Parish. After the service, many people came up to me and told me that I did a good job reciting the information during the service.

I do not know if this talent is practical, but I am a decent runner. My best time for the 5K was 21:07.5 in high school. I feel like if I really worked at running, then someday I could become a better runner. One of the sports I like playing for leisure is ultimate frisbee, and I have a talent for this sport.


I have always been told that I have a talent for being creative and artistic.


I do not work for a company that is trying to target a audience. The only thing that relates to my life in this context is the planning for the Middle Eastern dinner I am organizing on campus for CU Jews. I think that the people who attend the event want a quality event with good food and entertainment.


As aforementioned, I am a good organizer of events. I can organize all the parts of the event that we need to make the event work well.


Compared to most people’s drawing and design skills, I am very creative and artistic. I am thinking of designing the poster and flyer for our event.


On campus, there are so many organizations with events. Which one should a student go to? I think one of the issues is trying to get people to come to your events. I am a good event planner, so I think word of mouth is always a good way to get people to come to your events.  I am going to utilize the strategy of asking my friends to bring five friends to get more people to come to the event our club is planning. I think free food is always something that helps attract  people to come to a club’s event. Not all tabling events have promotional cookies to give away, so I think by including this aspect it will help get people to come to our club’s event. I also want to see if the Creightonian can write an article to promote this event.


I feel like millennials spend a lot of time online and on social media. Since they gravitate towards social media platforms, it is important to have a sentence that summarizes who one is as a person so that employers can have a glimpse of who they are hiring. It also allows potential Twitter followers to get a better idea of who one is as a person before they start following you.

Many news, advertising and public relations organizations have a sentence on their Twitter accounts. For example, NBC News’s sentence on their Twitter account is, “A leading source of global news and information for more than 75 years.” I feel like the sentence of news organizations is almost like a mission statement that describes the purpose of the organization.

What has stayed the same for news organizations? News organizations, for instance, still report the same news on television, but they increasingly utilize social media platforms to report breaking news.

In sum, everybody has a purpose in their life. Finding who you are meant to be and projecting that to the world in one short sentence is the challenge. So what are you living for?

Eat Israeli Food, Pray at the Western Wall, Love Social Media


I think that Facebook is important because it is the largest social media website, and it is where the most people are so one should pay attention to it.

I like Facebook because I can keep in touch with family and friends on it. I think that making Facebook events are especially important if you want people to come to your club’s events at Creighton.

Image from Master OSM 2011 licensed under CC BY-NC-SA 2.0

Additionally, I use Facebook because I like to follow pro-Israel journalists and news organizations and share articles and videos to promote the State of Israel.

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That’s me at the Western Wall during a high school trip circa 2013.

For instance, I follow black Zionist Chloé Simone Valdary. I like to share pictures of the Mediterranean in Israel, tourist spots like the Western Wall, Israeli food videos and breaking news, among other topics.

On Facebook, I also like to promote acts of kindness that I do to inspire others. For example, I am a frequent blood donor at the American Red Cross.

I am on Twitter. My Twitter username is @JLL66319. I do not like Twitter because I am more accustomed to using Facebook. Yet, I think Twitter is significant as a professional tool in the field of journalism. On Twitter, I follow people from high school, Creighton students, journalists and news organizations.


I do not like that future employers or other people who have influence in your life may see your posts on social media. If one posts embarrassing photos or harmful words, future employers might not hire you if they do not like what you present on your social media profile. A person could lose their job for posting something critical of their employer.

I do not like that people can judge you for what you post on your social media feed. For instance, a professor (who I might ask for a recommendation letter from someday) sent me a friend request on Facebook. I do not like the idea of a professor looking at my Facebook news feed. What if he thinks that what I post is stupid? How will he judge me based on my Facebook likes and shares? I chose not to deal with this predicament, and I have ignored the request for now. He knows me in real life, and that is good enough for me. Maybe after graduation I will add him on Facebook.

In addition, I do not think that people need social media to stay connected to their friends. People can always text or call each other if they want to get together. I think that people can become too addicted to using social media and not enjoy hanging out with their friends in real life. People can become too preoccupied about how many friends, likes, retweets and followers they have on social media, but at the same time these people should balance their virtual lives and hang out with real friends.

Nevertheless, I sometimes use Facebook messenger to ask my friends if they want to hang out. So, social media has changed communication for me because I use it to connect with friends virtually and in real life. In today’s world, I think that millennials try to maintain a real world identity in addition to an online identity through social media.

I know that time management is important, so my social media habits have changed a lot over the years. I deleted my Facebook account in 2014 because I wanted to spend more time studying and not get distracted by it. In 2015, I remade it because I missed seeing what my friends were up to. I have deactivated my Facebook account many times in order to focus more on homework, only to reactivate it again.


I have stopped using Instagram. I only set up an Instagram to get more entries into a promotional contest for Matisyahu concert tickets. And, no, I did not win them! I do not use Snapchat or Tumblr.

I have a LinkedIn account, but I do not really use it. I need to get better at updating my resume online. Nevertheless, I think it is a good idea to have a LinkedIn account so that you have an online presence that is there all the time for future employers to see when you are looking for a job.

Overall, I hope to become more knowledgeable about social media in this class. I hope this class will prepare me for a job in the future that requires one to have knowledge of social media.